Waking up in the Morning

My eyes were heavy, it had been a late night, and the night which had just passed was not long enough. One eyelid opened and the second followed more because it had to than it wanted to. Fresh air from the window was telling me to extend the sleep. But time the omnipresent was signalling otherwise.

It was so natural for me to get up at five thirty when time was so relaxed hanging both its arm, and would be happy to see me up. But today it had raised one of its arm to tell me that I was late. The short arm was just hanging close to six while the long arm clock was raised high, extending itself towards the twelve mark. I knew it will be six any moment and I was already late.

Like a new computer the body and mind were re-booting. Allowing the body to reboot on its own, I relaxed myself, But for the mind, I had to be careful, the mind needed some help, without which it could make some mistakes.

Mistakes if you ask me, yes it is the one which makes the most mistakes and sometimes plays games too. So it needs the extra care at the time it re-boots itself in the morning. One of the biggest mistake it does is that it has tendencies to carry "Ego" something it must leave behind. and leave behind for sure if you ask me. When you will tell it to leave behind "Ego" and start the day, it will argue with you that it is one of the most important to have in this world, at this time the mind has to be reminded that "Ego" is the last thing if it has to be carried, one could carry some a tiny bit of anger and some pride if one wants but when it comes to "Ego" dear no "Ego".
If you disagree
I will surely tell you why? ....

फीडर Buses of Delhi Metro Rail

Delhi Metro Rail has started Feeder Buses, for the passengers. Like the Metro Services,everyone expects Good Services. My Experience of the Service was very good. 5 min Service Clean. Well Lit Disciplined Staff On Nov 14, 2007. Time evening about 2100 Hrs Five out of Twelve buses are out of Order. On Nov 16, 2007 Time morning 0900 Hrs Seven out of twelve buses are out of Order. Is it Deliberate or the Buses are low standard. This needs investigation. So many buses out of order. Or everybody is making excuses Because the Delhi Police (Traffic) is asking Bribe to allow the buses to ply on the Road. The Service is not of DMRC but of a Private Contractor, Who can always be arm twisted to pay. Company refuses to pay. Conductors and Drivers are paid low wages, and have no incentive so also cannot bribe the DP(T) Lets hope a compromise is reached soon between the DP (T) and the contractors and the Buses are seen more on the Road than in the Workshop. This is for learning to the other Players who are coming to replace the Killer Blue Lines. Have Deep Pockets, with a hole to pay the DP (T). Greasing only the Politicians will not do. The Bureaucracy will always have its ways.

The Blueline Problem of Delhi

While I was reading the newspaper, about the Blueline Buses. It became very interesting to read that The Observations goes as this Observation 1 People are crushed by blue lines on the roads on daily basis Observation 2 People along with the Press raise the Hue and Cry Observation 3 The Government takes notice Observation 4 The Government puts the strict orders, and the police Cracks down on the buses Observation 5 People start to feel the pinch as buses keep off the Road. Observation 6. The Government gets even more strict, and keeps the buses off the Road for two days. Observation Lucky 7. The Government allows all buses to ply on the road and asks people to save themselves, and warns them it is their mistake if they get killed and that Bluelines are not at fault. My Doubts Did some one pay someone to say that all bluelines are OK and that nothing can be done about them The Dying people will not pay so Who gets the bucks and who paid is very clear. My Question Can the government call buses from Haryana and UP Roadways and ply them on the road or use their more responsible Drivers and conductors and the Government resources used, Sorry the politicians will not gain Nor the corrupt will gain. So this will not work, excuses will be brought forward.

Please put forward a scheme where the corrupt get a chance to earn,

and be sure the scheme will be successful,

one newspaper said it was a 20Cr per month corruption business in Blueline only.

If they give compensation of 2 Lakh to each person killed.

They can afford to kill 100 person per month.

But they are only killing about 10 a month average.

Why is everybody complaining ?

I fail to understand.

Are Women Better then Men

What do you do when you want to Wooooo a Man. Simply call in the experts The Wooo Man Sorry WO-MAN But what if this happens in large numbers What you get is Wooooo-Men Sorry WO-MEN What did you say No Women No Cry Or W – Omen Whose Omen. In India Today as one recent survey tells A Survey was done and lot of things came up In India this species is decreasing specially in the Northern Parts. Which is a shame? And Developing India cannot afford this Another thing of shame has also come-up in this survey. Indian families are becoming more nuclear families. Concept of Joint families is also reducing. In more and more families The decision Power is getting shifted towards the female members. The Lady of the house is making more and more decisions for the family Now if we compare between the previous generation and the present one, We will find that More children were born to the parents. My own father was four brothers and two sisters. That is six in all. In some families this numbers could be even greater. This generation with six and more siblings Lived more happily, Lived in a joint family, The siblings added their siblings, They all worked and built their careers, As there were greater numbers They all grew Physically strong Mentally strong Except a few, the majority progressed happily. It is interesting to note that, The earning at that time were so meager, But everybody enjoyed and progressed. Overall the society grew stronger with more values. Today, Earning per family has increased many folds Women are the decision makers, They applied their decision making powers Less children are born, Each family has one or two child, This child is over protected, pampered, short tempered physically very weak surviving on junk food, and the list is endless Now to be the head The concept of joint family is broken, This gave the independence, Reduced socializing within the family So no more extra siblings to take care, The weaker one dies or is shunned out of the family Weaker families Weaker Nation Concept of sharing giving greater causes has lost its meaning Don’t except a great nation in the future If the same is to carry on. It is not that I’m against women, I have simply to say that As long as emotional women are suggestive And the rational men the decision makers The Nation will be on the rise to its glory Or else Expect the nation to split Like the joint family Is now a nucleus family

Reservation Action Plan for students

Respected All, Let me congratulate you all for winning the first round from these social leeches, (our present politicians) Now time has come to prepare for the second round. This time you all are going to be hit harder. Prepare your self for Phase one: They are going to put a Split in your system What I fail to understand is that, you people are being referred as anti-reservationists, and people have started working on pro and anti basis. Please call yourself people for equality. As I understand you are agitating for equality. What you want is that equal caliber people compete. To put it more clearly let me put a small example. A person is suffering from Polio. What do you do. Curse the place from where he has come. Curse his parents, caste creed, nationality, origin etc No, you give him medicine, and other treatments. So that he can walk or if possible run again. You don’t send him on competitive racing On the competition you send people of same caliber. People who are equals. So when it is competition we want equal persons. Otherwise let it be first come first served, or any such system why competition. Phase 2. Stop the Press to cover your agitation. (This I shall elaborate on my next Comment.) Thanks Respected All, As I had said earlier the political Leeches have started their phase 1, which is by creating a split, and would start the second phase 2, of stopping the press to cover your agitation. As for the splitting is considered. You can easily see their working on the University level, They have taken over the whole system. Today when all the students are with you their leaders are waiting instruction from their bosses. Like Arjun Singh. Under closed doors they must have given their consent to you all, but outside and on the actual working they are waiting instructions from their bosses, who control them in every way. (Don’t expect them to come to you for any support, any work which you will assign them, they will ensure that you fail, inside all those who have come to you have a hidden agenda of Splitting you.) Soon you all will find that anger is setting in your discussions. This is the start of the spitting. In part one they labeled you Pro and Anti, While you said you were on equality. The word equality was drowned. Remember the past Mandal Days. The agitation started from AIIMS at that time too. Went to every part of India. India stopped for more than a week. Parents with their children were on the roads. The Media was not this active at that time. Still the agitation traveled to every nook and corner. The whole agitation was killed by the politicians. This time the whole media was with you all. Your voice was reaching every home all over the world, every hour, But still the agitation could not even travel to other student leaders, Know WHY. The politicians had learnt a lesson then. They have now put a split in place. The Student leaders are under their thumbs. They have either bribed, bullied or blackmailed them to submission. If they have plan A in place with the Split. You turn to your Plan A too. Fight the Split. More I shall elaborate on my next Comment.) Thanks Respected all, As I had said earlier about the split, let me add here that you require a plan to fight the split too. Action ONE Stop closed door meeting with the politicians. Ask them to come to your place of agitation. If they ask you to come to them, do not close the door. Tell them you have nothing to hide, Ask them why they want close door meetings. Beat them on their turf. Call the Press too at that time. Record all they say on your Handy cams, Even when the press is there and they are recording. Press will only show what they want them to show. Action TWO Stop the Hunger Strike. Wars are not won on empty stomach. A person with an empty stomach is weak. Weak Body Weak Mind. You are more prone to mistakes when Your mind or bodies are weak. They want you in one of these situations. Don’t fall for them. More I shall elaborate on my next Comment.) Thanks Respected All, I had asked you to stop the hunger strike. Action ONE Stop closed door meeting with the politicians. Action TWO Stop the Hunger Strike. Action THREE Return to your Work Just remember If Not Doing work is a type of agitation Over working is also a type of agitation. These politicians want that you stop work, so that they can put you in bad picture. They are doing so by telling everybody that patients are being returned from hospitals. Don’t play to their tunes. Go to Work, do extra work. Ensure that everyone is treated equally. No special treatment to these good for nothing VVIP’s Ask them to come in line with the other common people. Allot their special rooms to other more deserving patients Deny them the importance, they will agitate, Expose them. Bring the war to them. Action FOUR Start living from the place of the agitation. That is go to work from the place of agitation, And after work return to the same place. Open yourself so much that there is nothing hidden. While you are away, others take care, So the agitation will go on even if you are not there. Let one light the other Step ONE of Action FOUR Start living from the place of the agitation. Start a kind of bhandara from the place of your agitation. Let the relatives and friends of the patients to eat with you. Ask them about their problems. Listen to them. You will find that 95% of them are suffering in the hands of these Politicians. Expose them here too. Show equality works. Step TWO of Action FOUR Start living from the place of the agitation. Give a place for everyone to speak Let any body that comes to you to say something on the dais. Even two liners must be welcomed. Anybody who even wants to sing or mimic be allowed to do so. Anybody who wants to say something against you should also be allowed. Invite your opposition to speak, respect them for speaking against you, Try convincing them on your idea of equality Step THREE of Action FOUR Start living from the place of the agitation. Ask different religion persons to come and give sermons. Start Prayer meets every one hour (ten minutes each) In the morning start YOGA sessions etc. Bring variety to each working day If possible start Akhand Jyoti (forever burning fire) More I shall elaborate on my next Comment.) Thanks Respected All, I had asked you to stop the hunger strike. Action ONE Stop closed door meeting with the politicians. Action TWO Stop the Hunger Strike. Action THREE Return to your Work Start Living from the place of More I shall elaborate on my next Comment.) Thanks

MNC in India (The Giant and his Prison)

With the passing of each year, we are seeing more and more private companies. These companies feel pride in calling themselves MNC's. They say they are Multi National Companies, and have a different work culture. Different "Yes", Work "Yes", Culture "Yes" So what is this? Different "Yes", different to what we used to see, Different from that Babu types, Different from what everyone expects from them Work "Yes" Only Work Nothing But work Working to impress their superiors. Working to show that they are working (We all know That it is important that Justice is Given and it is even more important that Justice Must be Seen to be given) So work bust be seen to be done. So you can play that Game on your Computer or Surf on the internet for you know what your shares, match whatever, while your boss does the same himself hiding behind that laptop. In case of emergency reply one liners to the mails which came to you as one liners. (Who reads the details underneath no one has the time, Everyone has work to do Who said reading that mail is work I'm not a fool) Culture "Yes" again Culture or Vulture "Not Sure" Culture where Boss is More important than the Customer. Culture where you have Lunches where you eat your competition (competition not the market but within the organization) Don't tell me they are growing and what ever I said is wrong. Don't show me the market figures. Let me tell you India is a giant. Which was in prison, Redtapism had ensured that ONLY the top of the Giant could breath or see the world outside, With time the world grew and grew Even Countries like Malaysia flourished. But the top of the Giant saw red whenever the lower body wanted to grow. Redtapism helped. But in prison the lower part gathered dirt and became lazy. Waiting for a day when its size would increase to a level where The prison will become smaller. The Body Grew and the chains became tight, The Giant began to suffocate, The blood entered the eyes and breathing became difficult. To prove my Point (Earlier the underworld enjoyed smuggling Gold, watches. TV's etc. The upper part of the Giant enjoyed Now it deals in Drugs and extortion The Upper part of the Giant now pays the ransom)

My Experiment with the Astrology

Most of the people who know me also know that I render my astrologer talent to people free of charge. (being my hobby to understand mankind and its complexities) I always wanted to pen my experience with astrology, and wanted to pen down things which I feared telling the person, on his/her face. Specially when the news was too adverse or when the rate of growth was too steep for the person to digest. In one case one boys parents wanted me to match his horoscope with the girls. On inspection it was observed that the match would be a misfit, and the relationship would be in deep trouble within a couple of years. So what do I do ? I told the parents bluntly about it. They felt bad about it and went to another astrologer who said all was good. Now they wanted me to have a debate with the other astrologer, which I agreed only if the boy's parents along with the boy were willing to cancel the relation, Which they refused, so what was the fun in going for the debate. Destiny I know is so strong that when time comes one is so much squeezed into one particular action that nothing else seems right except that particular action. When that particular time is over the same person may say whatever, but the tentacles of destiny / time are strange and so sure, fixed, and certain no deviation not even in fraction of degrees. In another case one person came to me to know about the health of one of his son, who was having problem with some genetic ailment. But what was very clear that the person in question would survive to live and suffer his illness for more years to come. But the life of the younger brother of the child was coming, closer to its end, and had only a few more months to live. So what do I do ? To tell or not to tell is the question? Life is as it comes. You tell the person or not, destiny will happen, you know about it or not. It is time which is the strongest in this God's Maya. Maya is what is fooling all, and playing with all. If you try to understand the ways of Maya you will start to know this world. Time can only win over Maya, so to understand and win Maya one should try to understand time, just watch it as it passes. We have very little control over this time and even lesser control over Maya.

Kalia Family Tree (Parivar)

On Nov 30, 1995 morning, I was getting ready for work when I received the message that my father Shri Bhanu Prakash Kalia is no more. I packed my bag and went to my native village, Jakhera Dist Una in Himachal Pradesh. At the village we have mourning which goes for days. Relatives and friends visit us to pay respect for the departed soul. During such visits I came to know about several stories about our great ancestors, and now as time has passed I have collected more of them. I have also made the Family Tree of the Kalia's of Jakhera. Here I'm putting my findings about the Kalia Parivar (Family) If you get a chance to read the "Jati Bhaskar" the book which tells about the different castes (Jati) and their beginning. Under the Brahmin Khand you will find Saraswat Brahmin's. It is in this chapter that you will find the Kalia's, so we can say that Kalia's are Saraswat Brahmins. In the book there are two stories about the Saraswat Brahmins. As per the records which I could find. The upper most link I could get was of Shi Ganga Ram ji also known as Danu. Shri Ganga Ram ji had a son Shri Kali Ram ji (alias Balia), and Shri Kali Ram had a son Shri Dhyan ji. Shri Dhyan ji had four sons, Shri Gurumukh ji, (Wife Deru) Shri Moti ji, Shri Suchet ji and Shri Zhanda ji. (wife Deso). Shri Gurumukh ji and wife Smt Deru had three sons Shri Kundan Ram ji, (wife Gurdehi ) Shri Nehala ji, Shri Ram Saran ji.(wife Gulab Dehi) It is interesting to note that Gurdehi and Gulabdehi were sisters from a village 'Pachrande' In the year 1917 Vikram Samvat that is 1860 A.D. Smt Gurdehi had kept "Somvati Vrat" Smt Deru died in 1940 Vikram Samvat, that is in 1883 A.D. and Shri Kundan Ram ji went to Gaya, carrying the "astiyan". Shri Kundan Ram ji died in Vikram Samvat 1984,That would be in the year 1927 A.D.

I wanted to put the same in form of a chart but till date I have failed. If some one helps me out I shall try.

By that time I will try to add stories of different Members of the Family (In case you have any do let me know